Making a Good Get-Together Great

One of the nicest things I ever heard was from a friend, who is a coffee producer. When I asked him “What makes a great cup of coffee?” this was his answer: “The truth is, a cup of coffee is delicious when it is shared with great company.” I knew he wasn’t being facetious, it came from his heart (also, I was serving crappy coffee at the time, so thank God that is how he felt).

Do you feel that way too? I mean, in the end, it doesn’t really matter what you do, where you go, or what food is served, what matters is your company. So, if your company is what truly matters, how can you make guests feel that you value their time with you?

1.Appreciate instead of survive

My American friends are getting ready for Thanksgiving, while our holiday has long passed. I don’t actually mind it because it gives us a bigger break from the traditional large meal that is Thanksgiving and Christmas.

I remember very clearly when my mother would work tirelessly in the kitchen for days on end before a holiday. I know she did it with all the love in her heart for us. But you know what? It was damn hard, and she and my father never rested. I hope and pray they had moments in these holidays where they knew how much we appreciated the dedication to a delicious family meal and beautifully decorated home, and we, of course, told them.

I have noticed that each year, our meals have been changing. One friend might be vegetarian, one might be on a special diet, kids might be picky eaters and only like a certain food… It’s hard to limit the favourite dishes, but prepping in advance and getting help, mixed with simpler meals can allow any host to enjoy the moment that much more.


2.Bring out the good stuff

If you are of the generation of hope chests and big families, you may very well have silverware to your name, along with good china, precious tea sets, and so on. Do you use them? I don’t. Well, that is not entirely true. I use some pieces, and others are on display in my traditional dining room hutch. Don’t get me wrong, I love what I have out, but these items were not meant to be shown off like a painting on a wall. They were meant to be used regularly. A wonderful woman that I admire has spread the word online to “use your good stuff.” She’s right! What are we waiting for? My Dad used to make jokes that if the Pope were to show up, we’d be ready.

Granted, we don’t all have time to polish silverware daily, but there are times when pulling out beautiful pieces are worth it. Even if they scratch, even if they break. At least we used them!

Hallmark welcome placemat ($7.99 each), napkins ($6.95)

3.Add an easy extra touch

To make the décor themed and special, adding some extra pieces from Hallmark is something I try to do regularly. For the Thanksgiving season, Hallmark sent me some lovely napkins and placemats. They are simple, pretty and thoughtful all in one. I took out some special cutlery and plates and voila! A beautiful setting for any special meal. Hallmark has such sweet décor ideas that will bring joy to your table.

3.Celebrate more than the holiday

Making an effort for a special moment even if it’s simply a Tuesday, can bring delight to your family. Last week, I was chatting with a friend we hadn’t seen for a while. And normally, a weekend get-together works well for us, but we were both swamped with family activities. So, we decided to have a dinner together at our place on a weekday. It was so great to see everyone and it truly gave me a boost in good vibes for the rest of the week. That’s what friends do.

4.Take Time

Rushing through any moment makes appreciating it really difficult. Have the chance both for you and your guests to talk and have fun. Thanks to our kids, we can be playful and have fun with ease. We have a load of family games we can play at any gathering and it makes everyone loosen up and enjoy the moment. Our favourites for big gatherings right now are Pictionary and Mad Gab.

And while we’re on this subject, sit back after the get-together, alone. I started doing this, even if it is just for five minutes. It gives me a moment to reflect on just how lucky we are to have people in our lives that we can celebrate with.  Our time is our biggest gift to any one person. And I am grateful for the time I have with others.


Hallmark Canada is spreading the greatness of get-togethers with a giveaway. One lucky reader will receive two placemats and a package of napkins for their next get-together. To enter, fill out the Rafflecopter form and be sure to answer the question “what do you do to make your get-togethers great?”. I know you are filled with great ideas too!

This giveaway is open to Canadian residents only and he deadline to enter is December 3rd, 11:59pm.

Good luck to everyone!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Disclosure: I was gifted Hallmark products to facilitate this post. All opinions are honest and my own.


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Athena November 20, 2018 at 1:19 pm

I take the time to try and make it special. I use decor, but also make sure it’s a comfortable atmosphere. Plus good food and good company help too!

Jonnie November 20, 2018 at 11:31 pm

I find good music and a laid-back atmosphere helps everyone loosen up and really enoy themselves.

Glogirl November 21, 2018 at 8:50 pm

To make my get-togethers great I like to bring out the extra special dishes and create a soothing atmosphere with candles.

ivy pluchinsky November 22, 2018 at 3:14 pm

I make my get together’s great by bringing out the nicer dishes and table decorations

wendy hutton November 22, 2018 at 10:57 pm

Making sure that everything is planned ahead and have dishes my guests enjoy. We try to keep it liquor free as that is where the problems start.

Stephanie November 23, 2018 at 5:34 pm

Having great company and great food make a get together great! I also love decorating the house!

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Amber Y November 25, 2018 at 1:50 am

I make sure there is lots and lots of good and drinks to go around, and a second place set up for people to sneak away to when they need a little break from the crowd.

Denise L November 25, 2018 at 7:11 pm

I cook my most popular dishes and ensure I have a variety of drinks

Kristy Reid November 25, 2018 at 9:17 pm

I try to keep our get togethers simple so that I actually have time to spend with my guests, instead of being in the kitchen the whole time.

michelle tremblett November 26, 2018 at 12:09 pm

I try to prepare ahead of time so I have more time with my guests. I also build a music playlist that I think everyone would enjoy.

Bruke Benwell November 27, 2018 at 6:28 am

I use my special occasion dishes, soft music in the background and decorate the table with flowers

Robyn Bellefleur November 28, 2018 at 2:27 am

I always use our “nice” dishes for company and plan out a great menu and prep a lot ahead of time so I can enjoy the get together.

Jaimeem November 28, 2018 at 6:06 pm

I like to use nice dish sets and cute decor

Jenny Major December 1, 2018 at 11:13 am

Making sure that everything is planned ahead of time


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